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Goulet Pen Company

At the bottom of most of my product reviews, you see an affiliate link to In general, however, this is not where I originally purchased the item I am reviewing. It’s there simply as a quick link to the product for people who may want to order it like, RIGHT NOW.

As I’ve noted in other blog entries, I support shopping locally. Fairbanks, Alaska, where I live, has a great store in If Only…, where I will often grab pens, inks and paper. It is my favorite local store.

But sometimes I want something that they may not have in stock. In those cases I tend to order from the Goulet Pen Company. I swear, if they had an affiliate program, I’d replace that Amazon link in an instant! I absolutely love this company.

Located in Ashland, Virginia (a few miles north of Richmond), the company is primarily an online retailer. I’m not even sure if you can shop at the Ashland location. Their inventory includes pens from many manufacturers, as well as paper, inks and other writing accessories. Overall, they have a great and varied selection.

Customer service and shipping are top notch. I’ve placed three orders from the company so far and each has arrived meticulously packed (you can see some photos below). A personal note is written on each packing slip using one of the inks they have for sale, which they identify. Only rarely have I seen this level of detail and care from a company. Each package also contains a bookmark with the company information, a small card and, for the sweet tooth, a Tootsie pop. What more could you ask for!

So, while I do encourage people to shop locally first, if you can’t find something you are looking for, or if you are interested in a more varied selection, check out Goulet Pen Company.

Goulet Pens Package

A typical package, well padded!

Goulet Pens Wrapped Package

Oooooh, bubblewrap. My inner child is soooo tempted.

Goulet Pens Wrapped Package

Final layer of this onion. A tight plastic wrap prevents things from moving around.



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Writing And Essential Tremor

My full time job is writing the code behind websites. As a web developer, one of my favorite things to do is look at how people are finding the pages I create. This extends beyond work to the blogs I run. Key words are important, and seeing what words people search for helps a developer cater sites to specific needs.

In looking at the key words that people finding this site are using, I was surprised to see “essential tremor” pop up enough to be in the top five searches. I have only mentioned it in a couple of posts. I figure it might be a good idea to make a post specific to this topic and how it affects me, specifically, in connection with my fascination with writing.

Let’s start with some background.

What is Essential Tremor?

Wikipedia has an excellent article on essential tremor. At its core, essential tremor is a neuro-muscular disorder which results in the rhythmic shaking of the extremities, particularly during voluntary movement or times of stress. It is one of the most common movement disorders and it’s estimated that 4% of the population age 40 or older have it, though that number may be under-reported as many people who have it may not realize it or attribute it to other things.

No one seems to quite be sure what causes it. Some studies have linked genetic regions to the disorder, but there are others who suggest environmental toxins could be at work.

My Background

I suspect I first began noticing signs of essential tremor during puberty, though I mostly attributed it to caffeine. Caffeine is considered a “trigger” that can worsen the symptoms. Any stimulant can have that affect, but caffeine was my particular vice.

Essential tremor is often degenerative, so over time it gradually got worse. As I got older, I noticed it more frequently, for example, when I was hungry – low blood sugar being a trigger, or during times of (*ahem*) intimacy – physical exertion and strong emotions, more triggers. Eventually, I figured it was time to figure out what the heck was wrong. After a series of movement based tests, I was diagnosed with essential tremor.

So, let’s bring this back to writing

Essential tremor can kill your handwriting. I have always had bad handwriting, even before the onset of essential tremor. I was a pretty lazy learner as a kid, doing only what was necessary and little more. I suppose it didn’t help that I had vision problems and didn’t get glasses until the third or fourth grade (I honestly can’t remember! I know that first pair of glasses where big, thick plastic things with the Pink Panther on the side, but not quite when I got them.) By then, my handwriting was already a disaster.

Now, take that horrible handwriting and begin putting at first imperceptible wobbles in it. Make those wobbles bigger as time goes on. Yeah, you get handwriting that only the writer can read.

A decade ago this month, I started working on improving my handwriting thus sparking an interest in pens leading inevitably to this site. Okay, maybe that’s stretching it a bit… But let’s see where I was then and where I am now.

Handwriting Comparison

I’d say that is an improvement. Back then, to compensate for the tremor, I wrote very quickly. The lettering looks rushed and generally illegible. Below you will find my tips to improving your handwriting if you have essential tremor (or, hey, even if you don’t.)

Roger’s 5 Tips For Improving Your Writing

  1. BUY THIS BOOK! This link is NOT an affiliate link. I gain nothing by recommending it. When I decided to start working on my handwriting, this is the book I picked up. It guides you through italic lettering, a concise, legible letter face. There are many exercises as well as trivia that keeps everything interesting. Barbara Getty and Inga Dubay are handwriting experts who have put out several excellent books. They know their stuff. Your handwriting will be better by the end of the book whether you work with italic or another writing style simply by following their excellent advice.
  2. Slow Down. I used to write fast in the hopes it would overcome the tremor. But writing fast is a poor trade-off. Sure, you get fewer jiggles but you simply can’t write well fast. Everything looks rushed and sloppy. This may not be a problem if you are dashing off notes that only you will read, but it’s a poor choice for letter writing or anything, really, that you want to have longevity.
  3. Use a Wet Pen. A wet pen is one that puts down a lot of ink. Generally, this means using a fountain pen or gel pen, as ball-points tend to have a thicker consistency. A wet pen helps to smooth out lettering as the ink is absorbed by the paper. Some papers don’t take to a wet pen very well, feathering the ink which can make your writing illegible. Test combinations to see what works best for you. A wet pen also helps with point number two, as you will write more slowly as the ink dries.
  4. Write In Comfort. Stress and physical discomfort can make essential tremor worse. This will show up in your writing. Find a comfortable place to write away from distractions. I tend to curl up on my couch or sit at a desk specifically for writing, depending on my mood. Music can be handy if you are in a noisy environment.
  5. Write Frequently. Nothing helps improve your writing like practice. If you don’t already, take up daily journaling. You may not feel like you have something important to say everyday, but don’t worry. No one is telling you that you have to be verbose. Just write something. I have plenty of dull journal entries. The important thing here is simply practicing.


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A Review of the Review

With this site now being active for a few weeks, I decided to have a look at all of the articles I’ve posted so far. What I have decided is that they are not structured enough. In looking at other websites populated by my fellow pen enthusiasts (perhaps an exercise I should have performed before launching this site!) I see that in general they are considerably better organized.

My pen reviews tend to be about my experience with the pen and a few details here and there about performance and feel. I think I need to expand on those details. Additionally, many of the sites break down their reviews into common topics, making it easy to find, for example, the pros and cons of a selected pen, by putting in section headings. I think this is a great idea that I need to adopt here.

One other thing that has become obvious is that most sites include writing samples with their reviews. This one is a bit embarrassing for me, as my handwriting would be considered by many to be awful! My fellow essential tremor buddies likely know this feeling all to well. However, I do think it is a good idea to include writing samples, as it’s one of the best ways to demonstrate the quality of the pen and ink. Just try not to laugh to hard at my scrawl.

I have also worried about the affiliate links at the bottom of each review. In looking at other sites, I notice many of them, too, include affiliate links to products. But generally, they are linked text within the body of the review. I’m conflicted on that. If it’s the only affiliate links on your site, it seems rather deceptive. A person just clicking the link has no idea it’s an affiliate link. I want my readers to know. In fact, I’ve set up an Affiliate Disclaimer on my site (a requirement, in fact, if you are an Amazon Affiliate.) As stated on that page, I do not let my affiliation affect my reviews. They are based solely on experience with the product.

Anyway, I hope these changes bring about a better, more informative reading experience. I only had one review up this week (but for an excellent pen!), as I was tying up the last bits of my new book Journaling For Kids: A Parent’s Guide. But now that that is complete, I expect to get a few more reviews up in the next few days.

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Journal Writing For Kids

Journal Writing For Kids: A Parent's Guide by Roger AsburyJust a quick note to plug my new Kindle book Journal Writing For Kids: A Parent’s Guide. This is a short book (23 pages) to help parents get their children into the habit of keeping a journal.

There are a ton of reasons to get a child into the habit of writing. It can help them deal with complex issues, it’s a great stress reliever, and it provides a perfect outlet for the creativity every child possesses.

I provide several different ideas for what a journal can be, from your standard daily diary to art journals and dream journals. By getting our children into the habit of writing, they develop skills that will help them all of their lives.

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Handwritten Letters are Better Letters

[Note: This is an article I wrote eight years ago that I felt fit this site well. I have updated it to bring it current.]

In this age of instant messaging, email, and cell phones, we often think of communication as an immediate priority. We lose some of the finesse of the writers of years gone by. Messages tend to be choppy, full of acronyms and misspellings. There is no grace to our correspondence anymore.

After my wife and I separated, my children wound up two-thousand miles away. At that time, too young for email and cell phones, I began learning the art of letter writing. In my town, and I would hope most others, there is a shop specializing in all things writing related. There I found the book Writing Letters with Pen & Ink (which, unfortunately, now appears to be out of print).

The book is filled with wonderful tips and history. It is not a long book, by any stretch of the imagination, at only 29 pages. The pages are packed with artwork, memorable quotes from famous writers, but most important of all, inspiration to put away that keyboard and let the words flow from your hand to ink.

A typed letter can never provide the entire picture. Each letter, a laser copy of each other letter, so perfect in form, can not convey the emotional warmth that comes from imperfect handwriting, where a difference in style could signal uplifting feeling, or deepest despair.

This book inspired me to write, but there was another problem. I have never had the best of handwriting, and I was diagnosed with the neurological disorder essential tremor. This causes a person’s extremities to shake, in my case making my handwriting all that much worse.

Another book, Write Now came to my aid.

This book is filled with everything you need to learn to write in italic, a simple, yet elegant and legible writing style. There are exercises that run you through each letter, both capital and lowercase, organized in such a way that you are learning similar shapes and motions.

Italic puts an emphasis on least number of strokes per letter. The result is a system that lets you write neat, clean letters quickly. While I can not claim that italic cursive is the easiest thing to learn, it does look very nice.

Within a few days, I noticed that my writing was much more legible. The book is not a miracle worker, you do need to practice to get better. Writing letters, or keeping a journal are both excellent ways of practicing.

So get out there and write someone. Everyone loves finding a letter from a friend or loved one amidst the stack of bills.

Update: I first wrote this article eight years ago. Since then, both of the books mentioned appear to have become hard to find. I’ve provided a link for Write Now to the author’s web site. In theory, you can order from there, but when I tried the link was broken. A new edition has come out since I wrote this.

I’ve found no source for Writing Letters with Pen & Ink. I suggest trying a local library, or searching online for a used copy.

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